25 October 2011
A Goal Detail...
With all the excellent trails by my house, it would be fun to just grab some Leki Poles, start walking and call it exercise, but I think I could walk forever if I was setting the pace. For my exercise goal, I'm thinking of joining some sort of Zumba or other music/dance-ish sort of class. I used to enjoy doing aerobics, and I think I'm after something similar again. What would you recommend?
Goals
1. I will earn the DCD trip to Punta Cana. This is a big goal, reached by smaller steps:
- Starting November, sell $2000 per month
- Between November and the end of March (the contest time frame left), sponsor four new chocolatiers.
2. Once I am cleared by my midwife (November 14), I will find an exercise class and begin to exercise weekly.
3. I will eat at least three meals and two snacks per day.
Options...
He's been asking around and seeing what options we may have for getting rid of the old house, without completely ruining his credit report in the process. Do you have any experience with this? There are so many scammers and hoax stories going around that I'm hoping to find someone with legitimate referrals and real stories from real people!
All we've figured out so far is that it will probably take a bit of time, and we'll probably have to have the house vacant to get anything done. Unfortunately, this implies that we'll have no rental income for a while, and we will still have a mortgage company looking for a payment. I know this because I used to be the one looking for the payments from the folks on a mortgage! Ugh!
Random Tuesday Thoughts

Jack is napping. Maybe he was actually listening when I told him the plan? If he can nap on Tuesdays and Thursdays while Maggie is in school, my life may again have a couple of productive hours each week....maybe.
I miss having my nails painted, but I'd feel funny painting all of my fingers except my pinkies. Jack is like his sister - not a big fan of the pacifier, but will sometimes be calmed by sucking on a finger. Pretty nails will wait :)
Please, tell me something absolutely irresistible that I can eat. My appetite is back to nil, and I have to increase what I'm eating now that I'm nursing Jack instead of 'just' pregnant. Nutritional value isn't even high on the list of concerns, I just need to keep eating and eat more!
My boppy pillow was a casualty of the road trip last week. Last time I saw it was in the hotel room :( A new one is definitely on the short-list when hubby gets paid. Otherwise I'm lying down to nurse half the time, which frequently ends in a nap - whoops!
23 October 2011
Scrub a Dub!
I do what I can to keep up with it, but I'm hoping to have things settle into a schedule soon. Whether that schedule means I'm 100% mobile and can plan to clean the house, or if it means I book up my show calendar and can afford to pay someone else to clean the house remains to be seen.
Half a Year?
I can't believe we've lived in our new house for almost six months. We moved May 1, so in just over a week it will be half a year already. What has really surprised me is that of the people I know in the area, at least three of them moved here AFTER we did! One of those is a dear friend of mine who just happened to move to town after us, one is a mommy from Maggie's preschool class, and the third was a mom I met at the local LLL (La Leche League) meeting. Is the area growing so quickly, or am I just happening to meet the newest residents?
So far, so good. I'm still not sure the oven works like it should, and the box elder bugs and wasps drive me nuts, but it's fabulous having so much more room. With all the memories of the old house so fresh (who am I kidding, it's still technically our house!), I'm amazed to think that Jack will never live there. I wonder if Maggie will even remember the old house by the time she's 'grown-up'...
Hang on, Autumn!
Besides the dread of the cold, I just really like autumn the best. I like the crispness of the air, the beautiful changing colors of the leaves, and Halloween! If we could take month of hot, miserable summer, and a month of cold winter, and add them both to autumn, that would be a couple more months of happiness added to each year for me...
Weekend in Review

As I admitted a few posts ago, I'm having a hard time even remembering it's the weekend, after our mid-week trip last week!
Friday night found me still recovering from our trip! I did putter around enough to get mostly packed for my chocolate show on Saturday afternoon, as well as baking cookies to take with me. Baking is somehow easier after the four-year-old is in bed than with her 'help.'
Saturday we didn't have a lot of time before we needed to try and be on our way to mommy's 'chocolate work.' It was hubby's turn to sleep in, since I mostly just dragged my butt through Friday from complete exhaustion from the trip home Thursday night/Friday early AM. We made it out the door just before noon and were able to stop for a super-fast lunch at McDonald's before I headed to the hostess's house for the chocolate show.
It was good to get the first one under my belt. It wasn't a great show in terms of numbers, but the ladies were nice and it felt good to finally be working again.
Saturday afternoon we took a slow trip home, stopping to get Dairy Queen and pick up Jack's first pictures from Kiddie Kandids. I had great intentions about making some more scheduling calls for work, but I only got as far as calling a team member to help with entering an order.
Today started rough. I was very happy that Jack chilled on his own sleeper, so I could pull the covers up to my neck and snuggle in for a few minutes right before we all got up. Hubby's goal today was winterizing the boat, so he went and got that from storage while I hung out with the kids. Jack wanted my full attention, so I was finally able to make it to a shower at like 1PM.
This afternoon my mother-in-law came over for a bit. I think her plan was to love on the baby, but Maggie jumped in quick to have company playing in her room, and they dressed up and planned a wedding. Oh, to be four again!
Back to Work!
This doesn't mean I've just been eating bon bons, though. I've done plenty of work from home via email and phone. That has been paying off so far, as I've got five more shows between now and mid-November. I figure this time last year I was doing six to eight shows per month, so I'd like to work back to that in a hurry. November is our biggest sales month - I want my slice of the pie!
22 October 2011
Sunday Stealing: Questions Galore Part 3
Sunday Stealing: The Questions Galore Meme, Part 3
Cheers to all of us thieves!
41. What is a quote that you love? "It's all okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."
42. Do you think of pure hate as something humanity created? Nah.
43. When was the last time you wanted to scream? Probably pretty recently while my baby was screaming. I hate not knowing how to easily make him happy (besides nursing...).
44. Do you ever at times see the world in black and white? Ever? Probably. But not regularly.
45. Have you ever thought that cell phones are too obtrusive? Absolutely. Admittedly I sometimes I wish I was a bit more attached to mine and didn't set it down somewhere and forget about it, thus missing important calls...
46. In your life, where do you thank the rainbow will end? Huh? I can haz cheezeburger?
47. What is something that you never want to do again? Receive Pitocin. This is a pretty safe answer. I'm done having kids, and don't know of any other reason for them to give me such a vile substance.
48.When was the first time you realized the world was small? I don't remember.
49. How you spend your time contemplating life’s mysteries? There's usually alcohol involved...
50. Ever discuss your political beliefs with people? Sometimes. Although I think I have a lot more controversial views than my 'political beliefs.' I don't think I usually have much to say about politics.
51. Do you care about the environment? Sure.
52. What’s your motto for life? See #41.
53. Is progress destroying the beauty of the world? Not usually.
54. Do you believe there is life somewhere else in the universe? Yup.
55. Would you like to rule a country? Absolutely not. I never even wanted any sort of management position at work. I prefer just being responsible for myself. Okay, and my kids, now.
56. Do you believe everything has a purpose? No. Just look at a slinky...
57. Is war ever for the best? I think this falls along with politics, as a topic I just don't feel informed enough or involved enough to think much about.
58. Could you kill anyone in defense of self or loved ones? I used to think probably not. Now I think self defense would be a less likely reason than protecting my kids.
59. How do you react to people (Such as Governor Rick Perry) who don't believe global warming is really our fault? While I haven't heard much of the background to this story, I wonder whose fault he thinks it is?
60. Does love conquer all? Nope. Sorry.
61. Is euthanasia morally acceptable? On a case by case basis, sometimes.
62. Is world peace impossible? Probably.
63. Is pride a good or a bad thing? Pride, in and of itself, is not inherently good or bad.
64.What do you think is the purpose of your life? Now? My kids.
65. Do you believe in karma? Absolutely. I only hope I can have the opportunity to watch it level the playing field for some...
Big Plans
I should probably just enjoy the year off, since starting next year I'll be getting ready for Halloween at the same time as planning my favorite little boy's birthday party. I'll need to get the truck/monster/bug equivalent of Princess Invitations (where my true expertise has been up until now), and plan a birthday party as well as celebrating my favorite holiday (Halloween, that is!).
Help bring my holiday spirit back in check - do you have pictures to share of your Halloween decorations? Please leave me a link in the comments so I can check em out!
Saturday 9: The Last DJ
21 October 2011
So Excited!!
We'd told her Monday afternoon that all of us were taking mommy (me) to chocolate work, and we'd have to drive a long way and sleep in a hotel. The hotel was really all she heard of that. And she loves to sleep in any hotel. It doesn't have to have fancy lodge furniture, or mints on the pillow, or even a continental breakfast. It just has to be somewhere to sleep that isn't at home. She asks regularly if she can stay at the hotel a mile from our house...um...no.
By the time daddy got out of the shower on Tuesday, she'd quantified her excitement and spread her arms as far as she could to show him just how excited she was :) Luckily we can play along quite well - just seeing her excitement is enough for us to enjoy whatever is in store.
What a Deal!!
Products
1 1/2 lbs Chef Series Dark Chocolate
1 1/2 lbs Chef Series Milk Chocolate
4 Chocolate Mousse packets
1 Chocolate Martini Mix Bottle
1 Box of Cinnamon-Dusted Almonds
1 Truffle Fudge Brownie Mix
6 Chai Tea Packets
1 Blue Heart-Shaped Fondue SetPrinted Material
1 Welcome Packet
1 Tasting Party DVD
1 Share the Sweet Life DVD
25 Host Coaching Guides
25 Tasting Party Invitations
25 Fall/Holiday Catalogs
25 Fall/Holiday Entertaining Guides
50 Order Forms
If you just do your own show for your friends and family, you would make more than you spent and have products left over!! Please think about whether this would make your financial life easier (and more fun!) or if it might help out someone else you know. I can work with anyone in the 48 contiguous states (sorry, we don't do business in Alaska or Hawaii yet), and I do reward for referrals as well.
There's more information at my website, or feel free to comment and I can contact you with more information (my comments are moderated by me - if you include personal information I will not publish your comment, but I will receive your information :) ).
Wa(i)sting Away...
If only that meant I was back into my pre-pregnancy clothes! Not so much. ;) If I remember correctly, it was a few months with Maggie. The weight may go away, but my bones are still all relaxed and spread from all the room these big babies I have took up! I don't think it bothered me as much after having Maggie, since I wasn't working outside the home at all, and she was born in summer with a couple months of warm weather left.
Now I fit best in my maternity clothes, which include only three pairs of jeans and one pair of slacks...the rest of it are capris and shorts and it's already too cold for those! I'm starting to look forward to my six-week follow-up appointment and getting the okay to exercise.
10 Random Things for Friday
- I have been totally thinking today was a Monday all day. Mostly because we all got back from my Dove Chocolate training at 3AM today, so now I feel like it's a 'fresh week.' It's not.
- While winding down my business somewhat and waiting for the baby to get here, I quit ordering supplies. Now I have six events in the next 30 days or so, and I'm using the LAST of my catalogs and milk chocolate for my party tomorrow - whoops!!
- Training was FANTASTIC! I'm ready to call everyone I've ever met in the next week or so to tell them about their last chance for our $79 business kit! Don't worry - I'll be posting it here again too. It's a great opportunity to join the chocolate business in time for our busiest selling season, and you'll recoup your investment by doing just one average party!
- I'm excited to go pick out a Halloween costume with Maggie this weekend...
- Have you seen the Edible Arrangements fruit bouquets for Halloween? Adorable! I just saw them on a TV commercial while nursing Jack earlier this evening.
- I busted open a box of PB&Chocolate Truffles tonight while I'm getting stuff ready for my show tomorrow - YUM!
- I feel kinda bad. We ended up all going out of town for my training this week, so I forgot to order something from Maggie's fundraiser for school. She wanted to get the flashlight keychain that's a reward for selling five items...a friend on Facebook bought four items, but I totally dropped the ball as mom and bought nuthin. Sorry kid. I'll try to do better next time.
- Jack's first newborn portraits are done, but I sat around trying to get the oven repaired...again...instead of being able to go pick them up today. Hopefully tomorrow. Then I want to get a frame and hang my favorite one up, of course.
- And the oven. Ugh. It smells like gas when I use it again. Unfortunately the repair place did call to try and send someone out, but I was nursing and couldn't get to the phone. Then they left a message, but it was on my Google voice instead of my phone's voicemail, and I didn't check the computer again soon enough to get the message.
- I've really got to get back on the ball lately!
19 October 2011
Ringling Bros and Barnum & Bailey
'The greatest show on earth...' - I keep getting the old Peggy Lee song stuck in my head, "Is that all there is?"For about a week before the show, Maggie truly thinks that is all there is! Her excitement over events like the circus is so infectious it makes me forgot some of the annoying moments of being a mom.
We'll be going to the Ringling Bros and Barnum & Bailey presents Barnum 200 in less than a month! The show will be from November 9 - 13, 2011 at the Palace of Auburn Hills. To get four tickets for just $44, use the discount code MOM when ordering your tickets online, by phone or at the Palace box office.
I am a Feld Family Ambassador, and in exchange for my time and efforts in attending shows and reporting my opinion within this blog, as well as keeping you advised of the latest discount offers, Feld Entertainment has provided me with complimentary tickets to Feld shows and opportunities to attend private Feld pre-Show events.
15 October 2011
Disney on Ice
I always love watching the skaters. I skated for a while when I was younger, but I still can't imagine ever having reached the level of strength and skill that I see at every ice show I've attended. The music and excitement is enough to keep the kids engaged too. I don't think my kids have heard so much Elvis as they did during the portion of the ice show based on Lilo and Stitch. It's now on Maggie's wish list of movies to see again soon.
I am a Feld Family Ambassador, and in exchange for my time and efforts in attending shows and reporting my opinion within this blog, as well as keeping you advised of the latest discount offers, Feld Entertainment has provided me with complimentary tickets to Feld shows and opportunities to attend private Feld pre-Show events.
13 October 2011
What's Important to YOU?
Sometimes Maggie totally melts my heart.This morning I received an email that President Obama and the South Korean President Lee are touring the GM Orion Assembly plant that's near our house. Maggie's always been fascinated by the president, so I made sure to tell her how close he would be to her house. We drive by the GM Orion Assembly plant all the time, so she knows right where he'll be tomorrow.
What totally got me was Maggie's first gut response. As much as I know she likes the president, I thought she'd want to try to go see him (and I have no idea how I would try that!). Instead? My adorable girl said, "He hasn't met Jack yet!" I asked her if she thought he should stop by to meet him, and of course she was supportive of that idea ;) My daughter didn't want to meet the president, or even to have her little brother meet the president, but she definitely thought the president should make a point of meeting her very important little brother!
(And yes, that's the little brother, Jack, in the picture ;) )
12 October 2011
Next Up? Phineas & Ferb!

Well, tomorrow is the big day - Jack's first show at the Palace of Auburn Hills! It's a 'family' outing to Disney on Ice presents Mickey and Minnie's Magical Journey...I'm not sure he'll get much out of the show, but where I go, he goes, so tomorrow that's our plan!
He'll probably sleep through that and our next Palace show as well - in just a few weeks we'll be seeing Phineas and Ferb Live on Tour!. You can join us there on November 5. Tickets to the 1PM or 4PM show are available for just $15 by using the discount code 'MOM' when purchasing online, at the Palace box office, or by phone. According to their website, there's also a 7PM show.
I am a Feld Family Ambassador, and in exchange for my time and efforts in attending shows and reporting my opinion within this blog, as well as keeping you advised of the latest discount offers, Feld Entertainment has provided me with complimentary tickets to Feld shows and opportunities to attend private Feld pre-Show events.
11 October 2011
Back to Life...
Maggie (bless her heart...) says my belly is getting smaller, but it's still squishy. She said she likes it like that...hmm...okay? Right after the birth, she climbed up on the hospital bed with me and asked, "Mommy, why is your belly still big?" Good thing she's cute!
10 October 2011
Menu Plan Monday

I hope I'm not being too optimistic planning to eat in addition to spending each day with two kids ;)
Just kidding - I know plenty of women who do more with more than two kids - I'm just still trying to find my groove...
Monday: Meatballs, mashed potatoes, brussels sprouts
Tuesday: Probably leftovers, since hubby usually has plans on Tuesday night...
Wednesday: Chinese Chicken (if hubby wants to make it)
Thursday: Tacos (then Disney on Ice!!)
Friday: Loaded Baked Potato Soup
05 October 2011
The Circus!

The fun just keeps coming!! RINGLING BROS. AND BARNUM & BAILEY® is coming to the Palace of Auburn Hills next month - November 9 - 13, 2011. Maggie has loved going to the circus the last couple of years. My fondest memories from the circus are still chasing down all of the clowns with our programs and trying to get all of their autographs. Maggie isn't quite there yet, though. I think her favorite last year was the elephant who painted a picture with his trunk during the pre-show.
You can get four tickets for $44 by using the discount code 'MOM' at the box office, online, or by phone. Hope to see you there!
I am a Feld Family Ambassador, and in exchange for my time and efforts in attending shows and reporting my opinion within this blog, as well as keeping you advised of the latest discount offers, Feld Entertainment has provided me with complimentary tickets to Feld shows and opportunities to attend private Feld pre-Show events.
Life on the River
The Author of this post is Cheryl Martinez
We have developed our first new property in four years. When the recession hit hard, we decided to put all of our projects on hold until we knew that we would be able to make some profit and sell the units. The project is loft-style condos on the river about five minutes away from town. We designed them in a contemporary style. All of the units are energy-efficient with the latest and greatest, in attempt to go green and save the home owners money. The floors are stained concrete and each unit has exposed steel beams that are designed to look like aged cast-iron. We installed HOME SECURITY FAMILY alarm systems in each unit. The kitchen counter tops are also stained concrete and we put stainless steel appliances in each unit. Lastly, my favorite touch, are the home stereo system installed in each unit that has an iPod doc. So far, the response has been good because the designs are unique to the area. We are hoping to attract the young and hipster crowd. Hopefully, we can convince them to move out of the city!
03 October 2011
Jack's Birth Story
At the hospital (after Red Robin lunch with two full Cherry Cokes), my NST was great, and then they did a biometric something or other. Baby Jack showed great practice breathing, large motor movements, and small motor movements, but two doctors checked and could only find two pockets of amniotic fluid. They said I wasn't going anywhere.
Because of the low fluid, I was to be induced, and I had to be monitored, which meant I couldn't be admitted to the alternative birth center as I'd planned on all along. The midwife on-call was the same one I'd been seeing for my appointments, so she came over to triage and assured me that they'd bring the birth center to me.
Friday night around 5:30 they started me on pitocin, but were really lazy about upping the dose. They did let me order dinner, but I was then awake most of the night just mildly uncomfortable but not progressing.
Saturday morning the gates of hell opened and let my day nurse into my room. Okay, she was just relentlessly by the book and made me really mad. Suddenly, I was not allowed any food or drink and my pitocin dose was upped by about two points every half hour.
At about 8:45AM I felt my water break. Hubby asked if we wanted to call someone and I initially said no. I didn't want to be put on their clock and I was still mad at everyone. At almost 9:30 I decided to call the birth center and have them send me a midwife to check me (no midwife had checked on me all night, since I later found out the midwife on duty delivered FIVE babies that night...). The midwife, Jan, came over and said I was still at just a 3 (I had been at a 1 or 2 the night before).
Not much happened besides me getting progressively more miserable until 12:30 or 1....at that point I was just begging for it to be done. The pitocin made everything so yucky I just asked for something for the pain (but not an epidural). Jan checked me again to find I was all the way up to a 4 (ugh) and gave me a shot of some opiate in my IV. The last thing I remembered was hearing her tell hubby it was usually about an hour per centimeter of dilation. I said there was no way I could do this for six more hours. They dropped by pitocin from 17 down to 5 so I could rest for a bit, even if it meant I stopped progressing.
Less than an hour later, I started making a racket - moaning and completely unable to stay asleep, much less comfortable. The midwife and nurse went to move me and saw bloody show, so the midwife checked me again (after saying the drug should still be working, and there's no way I sounded like a woman at 4 cm). I remember seeing her and hearing her say, "She's complete!" Yes, I slept through transition.
Everything moved fast, as the nurse helped the midwife get stuff together and get a gown on. The foot of my bed dropped and suddenly hubby was holding one leg, the nurse was holding the other, and they told me to push a couple times. Then the midwife told me to stop pushing, and then to just do tiny pushes. Hubby told me that at this point, Jack was half crowned, but the midwife was seeing how big he was and trying to just ease him out.
At 1:52PM the midwife put Jack on my chest and confirmed that I had not torn! They asked how big we thought he was as they walked to the scale, and I was guessing nine something, because I didn't feel as traumatized as with Maggie (yay for drugs!). Imagine our surprise when they announced he was 10 lbs, 10 oz! Whoa!
Phineas & Ferb!

Woo-hoo!! My life is ready to get back on track (baby announcement and pictures to follow!) and there's another show coming up at the Palace - this one is Phineas & Ferb. It's just November 5 at 1 and 4PM, but you can get tickets for just $15 by using the code 'MOM.'
Will you be there with me (and both kids!)?
I am a Feld Family Ambassador, and in exchange for my time and efforts in attending shows and reporting my opinion within this blog, as well as keeping you advised of the latest discount offers, Feld Entertainment has provided me with complimentary tickets to Feld shows and opportunities to attend private Feld pre-Show events.













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