So I'd like to modify my answer to #2 - Things you'd like to have, regardless of cost. Actually, I'd need to then answer it in two parts, an outdoor kitchen, and a cool yard to have it in (so it's only a slight modification, since I already asked for the patio). Right now, we'd end up looking at the neighbors on their patio, which would just be kind of awkward, ya know?
While we're at it, can I have a chef to go with that? hahaha